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Why Black Sheep Wellbeing?<

I didn't follow the straight path. I left school early. I came back through an Access to Higher Education course, then a BSc (2:1) in Counselling Psychology, then an MA with Merit in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy at Leeds Beckett. I am now completing a specialist Diploma in Trauma at The Grove. I know what it's like to be the outsider in the room. To hold it together. To feel like you have to prove you belong. That is what many of my clients bring too - whether it's anxiety, burnout, grief or trauma. That feeling of having to cope, of being too much or not enough. That's why I developed the Black Sheep Model. It's not about fixing you or putting you in a box. It's about finding solid ground together, processing at your pace using pendulation - gently moving between what feels difficult and what feels resourced - and reclaiming your life on your terms. My approach is no judgement, no jargon, no box to fit into. Just a safe, honest, confidential space at your pace. Grounded in the evidence-based Tri-Phasic Model and body-based work, delivered within the BACP Ethical Framework. If you have ever felt like the black sheep, you will fit right here. 15+ years supporting adults across health, social care and veteran-facing roles, now as a qualified integrative counsellor and psychotherapist MBACP 00988492. Based in Hemsworth, working in person within 20 miles, Walk & Talk, and online UK-wide via secure Konfidens video. Trust a Veteran Approved Provider | Armed Forces Covenant Bronze Award Holder | Enhanced DBS Checked - Barred Lists Checked

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Therapy that cuts through the noise. Specialist trauma, grief and anxiety support - using the Black Sheep Model to help you find solid ground again.

I'm Ken, a Masters-qualified integrative counsellor and psychotherapist (MBACP 00988492) based in Hemsworth, WF9. I offer a warm, confidential space to work through anxiety, burnout, grief and trauma - at a pace that feels right for you. My work is grounded in my specialist Black Sheep Model of Trauma Recovery, combining the evidence-based Tri-Phasic Model with body-based pendulation to help you find solid ground again. If you've ever felt like the black sheep, you'll fit right here. Online UK-wide via secure Konfidens video, plus Walk & Talk and home visits within 20 miles of WF9 4.

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About me

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I'm Ken, founder of Black Sheep Wellbeing MA Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist, MBACP 00988492 - Registered Member BACP Find me on the BACP Register: bacp.co.uk/therapists/420338/kenneth-etchells/pontefract-wf9 I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties or feeling stuck. A space to slow down, be heard, and make sense of things without judgement or pressure. My Background Before qualifying I served in the British Army, worked in engineering, and spent 15+ years supporting adults in health, social care and veteran-facing roles. That shapes how I show up - calm, steady, practical. I understand what pressure, responsibility and carrying things quietly feels like. I know what it is to be the black sheep in the room, to hold it together and still question if you belong. I didn't take the straight path. I left school early, came back through Access to Higher Education, then BSc (2:1) in Counselling Psychology, then MA with Merit in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy at Leeds Beckett. I am now completing a specialist Diploma in Trauma at The Grove. How I Work - The Black Sheep Model My work is integrative and pluralistic - meaning I shape the work around you, not a fixed programme. It is grounded in my Black Sheep Model of Trauma Recovery, which combines the evidence-based Tri-Phasic Model with body-based principles including pendulation. In plain English: we find solid ground first, we process at your pace without flooding, and we work towards reclaiming your life. We use pendulation to gently move between what feels difficult and what feels resourced, so your system learns it can come back to safety. I am more direct than most therapists. You are investing time, energy and money. I take that seriously. You will get warmth and compassion, plus structure, guidance and clarity when it is helpful. We will look at what is happening, why it is happening, and what helps you move forward. You bring lived experience. I bring clinical training and honest, straightforward support. Based in Hemsworth. In person Walk & Talk and home visits within 20 miles, and online UK-wide via secure Konfidens video. 50 minute sessions £60, Trauma Focused Support 90 minutes £85, Armed Forces / Frontline concession £45. Trust a Veteran Approved Provider | Armed Forces Covenant Bronze Award Holder | Enhanced DBS Checked - Barred Lists Checked | Working within BACP Ethical Framework

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Ken Etchells, online therapist at Black Sheep Wellbeing, Pontefract

How I Can Help

Support shaped around you

Specialist, trauma-informed support - at your pace, with safety at the centre. All of my work is grounded in my Black Sheep Model of Trauma Recovery - a phased, evidence-based approach that combines the Tri-Phasic Model with body-based pendulation. We start with safety, process at your pace, and work towards reclaiming your life. No rushing, no flooding. Trauma When past experiences still feel present. On edge, numb, easily triggered, stuck in patterns you can't explain. Using the Black Sheep Model we find solid ground first, then gently make sense of what happened and how it is still affecting you through pendulation - moving between activation and safety - so you can feel safer and more in control. Trauma Focused Support - 90 minutes, £85. Anxiety When your mind is busy, your body is tense and you can't switch off. Anxiety is often your system staying on alert. Phase 1 of the model focuses on grounding and understanding your nervous system. We use pendulation to learn to move between worry and steadiness, and look at what is driving it so you can feel calmer day-to-day. 50 minutes, £60. Depression When life feels flat, heavy or pointless and energy is low. Low mood often comes from carrying too much for too long. We work with Phase 1 to find safety and small moments of resource, then pendulate between numbness and connection, exploring what is underneath at your pace and finding steady steps forward. 50 minutes, £60. Grief and Loss Living with loss of any kind. Grief has no timeline. We work with the Black Sheep Model to gently move between the waves of grief and moments of steadiness. There is no pressure to move on, just space to process what you are carrying and find solid ground around the loss. 50 minutes, £60. Based in Hemsworth - online UK-wide via Konfidens secure video & telephone. Walk & Talk and home visits within 20 miles, subject to risk assessment. In person Pontefract area, 50 minute sessions £60, 90 minute Trauma Focused Support £85, Armed Forces / Veterans / Frontline concession £45 - limited spaces. MBACP 00988492 | Trust a Veteran Approved Provider | Armed Forces Covenant Bronze Award Holder | Enhanced DBS Checked - Barred Lists Checked

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Common questions

How do I know which session is right for me?+

You do not need to decide before we speak. Most people start with the free 20-minute initial chat. We can talk through what you are looking for and whether weekly 50-minute sessions (£60) or longer 90-minute trauma focused support (£85) would be more helpful. We will decide together and we can review as we go. Book free chat via Konfidens Booking Link on blacksheepwellbeing.co.uk – no obligation – online UK-wide, phone, home visits within 20 miles WF9 subject to risk assessment.

Who can access the concession rate?+

I keep a small number of reduced rate spaces for Armed Forces, serving personnel, veterans, blue light and frontline workers at £45 for 50 minutes. If you need this, just mention it when you book your free chat. If those spaces are full, I will let you know and add you to the waiting list. Limited concession – evidence of service may be requested – online UK-wide via Konfidens secure video + home visits within 20 miles WF9 subject to mandatory risk assessment. ICO 00014426800 | Insured HIS1222343 | MBACP 00988492 | Armed Forces Covenant signatory | Trust A Veteran Registered Provider

How do I book and pay?+

You can book your free 20-minute initial chat through the button on this page. If we decide to work together, we will agree a regular weekly slot. Sessions are booked and paid via Konfidens Pay on blacksheepwellbeing.co.uk – card payment, auto receipt, fees as displayed at booking. Payment secures your slot. I will send you all the details after our initial chat – ICO 00014426800 | HIS1222343 | MBACP 00988492 – GDPR EU servers.

What is your cancellation policy?+

Cancellation Policy I require a minimum 24-hour notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. This gives me time to offer the space to someone else. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours notice, or missed without notice (DNA), are charged at the full session fee as genuine pre-estimate of loss – per Consumer Rights Act 2015. To cancel – use Konfidens cancel link in your booking email, or email info@blacksheepwellbeing.com / text 07468727721 Illness/emergency – let me know as soon as possible – discretionary waive at my discretion on first occasion. Block bookings – sessions cancelled <24h/DNA counted as used within 6-month validity – 14-day cooling off if no sessions used.

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